I highly recommend reading the article by Isabella Nuboloni that has just appeared in our IIPA Journal, "A Tender Mother May Be There for Me!": Forms of Vulnerability and Relational Processes Promoting the integration of the Self".
It is beautiful, deep, touching and written in a pleasant and very agile style. That is my opinion.
Congratulations Isabella for your excellent writing and for your therapeutic success!!!!
My profound admiration!